Building block toys have always been a favorite among children thanks to the fact that they are both fun and challenging, especially for toddlers and preschoolers. However, other than just being an entertainment tool, building block toys offer several benefits for your kids. Here are 5 of those benefits:
1. Better Motor Skills – Using building blocks requires your child to put them in a position so that they do not topple over. As a result, hand-eye coordination improves the more the child plays. The act of grasping the blocks itself serves as good practice for gripping objects, and strengthens the fingers and hands of the child.
2. Mental Stimulation – Your child learns to think logically when playing with building blocks. After a few tries at building something and watching the blocks topple over, your child will learn that the blocks have to be arranged and placed properly to prevent that from happening. An older child will also realize that a stronger base can be made if you arrange most of the blocks at the bottom. Logical thinking skills are crucial in a child’s intellectual development.
3. Math And Vocabulary Skills – Studies have shown that the inclusion of building blocks in playtime helps develop language and mathematical skills among children. Language skills develop when the child learns the names of the colors, shapes and sizes of building blocks. Mathematical skills are sharpened when a child learns to add up or subtract the number of building blocks required to build a structure. As such, it’s easy to see why building blocks are a great preschool learning tool.
4. Improves Creativity – Children learn how to create different structures using building blocks, and this stimulates their creative mind. Thus building blocks offer a good base to encourage a child’s creative abilities and not just the logical.
5. Encourages Positive Social Interaction – Building blocks are the type of toys that a child can share with others. By encouraging them to play together they learn how to interact and cooperate. This is among the first forms of teamwork your child can engage in.
It may be difficult to comprehend how toys as simple as building blocks offer so many benefits, but it's wonderful to know that age-old, simple toys can serve such good purposes.
Friday, December 20, 2013
Thursday, December 12, 2013
A Guide to the Development of Sharing and Cooperation in Children
There are many stages in a child’s development. One of these stages is the concept of learning and understanding how to share and cooperate with others. This is critical in social and relationship building, in order to be a positive influence in society. The importance of adult supervision and involvement is needed at this stage.
The Early Stages
A child starts to learn the action of sharing and cooperation with simple gestures in infancy of giving something to an adult, with the adult returning the item to the infant. This development process later becomes more defined amongst toddlers between the ages of 18-24 months. They are now becoming more deliberate in the action of sharing and cooperating.
As toddlers, children begin to develop the concept of ownership of items. A child knows what he or she needs and wants, and with adult guidance learns how to share personal items with others. Interestingly, researchers found girls preferring to share and cooperate with friends. Boys on the other hand displayed no preference.
The Role Adults Play
Adults are able to set the stage for creating a learning environment for sharing and teaching children the action of sharing. Adults are also key in teaching children to work together in cooperation, or as a team.
Take time to acknowledge a child you observe sharing and cooperating. Recognition enforces the positive nature of this behavior. Children also need to see adults performing the same actions that are being preached to them. An explanation of what it means to share and cooperate may contribute to the reinforcement of this action to children.
The Role of Toys
When children see that there is an abundance of items available, they will be more inclined to share. To support this development in your child, the use of some toys can create the sharing and cooperation process and environment. These toys assist in making the concept of sharing and cooperating more meaningful for children.
Toys such as stacking blocks, building sets, and puzzles all encourage sharing with an adult or another child, as well as working as a team. Even buying sheets of large paper and some markers and crayons can be a great way for your child to enjoy creating a project with someone else.
The Early Stages
A child starts to learn the action of sharing and cooperation with simple gestures in infancy of giving something to an adult, with the adult returning the item to the infant. This development process later becomes more defined amongst toddlers between the ages of 18-24 months. They are now becoming more deliberate in the action of sharing and cooperating.
As toddlers, children begin to develop the concept of ownership of items. A child knows what he or she needs and wants, and with adult guidance learns how to share personal items with others. Interestingly, researchers found girls preferring to share and cooperate with friends. Boys on the other hand displayed no preference.
The Role Adults Play
Adults are able to set the stage for creating a learning environment for sharing and teaching children the action of sharing. Adults are also key in teaching children to work together in cooperation, or as a team.
Take time to acknowledge a child you observe sharing and cooperating. Recognition enforces the positive nature of this behavior. Children also need to see adults performing the same actions that are being preached to them. An explanation of what it means to share and cooperate may contribute to the reinforcement of this action to children.
The Role of Toys
When children see that there is an abundance of items available, they will be more inclined to share. To support this development in your child, the use of some toys can create the sharing and cooperation process and environment. These toys assist in making the concept of sharing and cooperating more meaningful for children.
Toys such as stacking blocks, building sets, and puzzles all encourage sharing with an adult or another child, as well as working as a team. Even buying sheets of large paper and some markers and crayons can be a great way for your child to enjoy creating a project with someone else.
Monday, December 9, 2013
5 Ways To Keep Children Entertained When Traveling
Traveling with young children can be a challenge, especially on long trips in a car, airplane, or train – it's really hard for them to sit in one confined position for a long period of time. The trick to making traveling fun and exciting for children is to keep them entertained and their tummies full.
With boredom, comes restlessness, and with hunger comes crankiness. A combination of this can mean an unpleasant trip, not only for the children, but for everyone traveling together. If you take some time to prepare before embarking upon a long traveling venture, you might have a much happier experience.
1) Pack Travel Bags
Pack a travel bag specific to each of your children. Some important items to remember are your child’s favorite stuffed animal, blanket, and toys. Nothing comforts a child more than his or her favorite blanket and stuffed animal. Just these items alone can make a big difference when traveling.
Also include snacks and water in spill proof containers for those in-between moments when your child may be suddenly hungry or thirsty. This may help in keeping your child satisfied until the next available meal time.
2) Bring Along Activity Books
Purchase some portable trays, so each child has his or her own personal activity center. Children can use these trays as tables when traveling. Bring along new coloring books and other fun writing activity books that your child can draw, write, and color in. Remember to also bring the colors, pens, and pencils along.
The importance here is that these activity books are new. The reason for this is that your child will be more excited and entertained with something new, than drawing books that have already been marked up.
3) Purchase Toys and Games Designed for Traveling
To avoid the crying or nagging of dropped toys or other items, purchase games and activity centers that are designed specifically as travel toys. These items will usually have pens attached by a string to an activity book, and have magnetic pieces for games or puzzles.
By keeping everything within your child’s reach, and taking precautions for the unexpected, your child may have so much fun that he or she will not even realize how long you’ve been traveling. Having a variety of different engaging toys and games are even great for children to enjoy together.
4) Pick up a few Disposable Cameras
Investing in a few disposable cameras can create hours of fun for children, without the worry of it breaking or becoming damaged by an accidental drink spill, especially if you purchase the waterproof type. Give each child a camera and ask him or her to take pictures of items that he or she has never seen before. This makes it fun and can keep children occupied for hours if traveling by ground.
Once you arrive at your final destination, have your child’s pictures developed so he or she can immediately see what kind of pictures were taken. Younger children, especially, really enjoy taking pictures, so stocking up on a few disposable cameras can be a worthwhile investment.
5) Bring Along Electronic Items
Both older and younger children enjoy electronic items, such as DVD players, music players, and handheld gaming systems. Depending on the age of your child, a movie, for example, can easily deliver two hours of non-stop entertainment. If deciding to pack along electronics, always remember to pack extra car chargers or batteries.
Keeping children entertained when traveling is easy with some pre-planning. Children love to be busy seeing things and doing things, so making frequent stops if traveling by car can also be a great way to break up a long trip. Be creative and think from your child’s perspective. After all, no one knows what your child loves more than you.
With boredom, comes restlessness, and with hunger comes crankiness. A combination of this can mean an unpleasant trip, not only for the children, but for everyone traveling together. If you take some time to prepare before embarking upon a long traveling venture, you might have a much happier experience.
1) Pack Travel Bags
Pack a travel bag specific to each of your children. Some important items to remember are your child’s favorite stuffed animal, blanket, and toys. Nothing comforts a child more than his or her favorite blanket and stuffed animal. Just these items alone can make a big difference when traveling.
Also include snacks and water in spill proof containers for those in-between moments when your child may be suddenly hungry or thirsty. This may help in keeping your child satisfied until the next available meal time.
2) Bring Along Activity Books
Purchase some portable trays, so each child has his or her own personal activity center. Children can use these trays as tables when traveling. Bring along new coloring books and other fun writing activity books that your child can draw, write, and color in. Remember to also bring the colors, pens, and pencils along.
The importance here is that these activity books are new. The reason for this is that your child will be more excited and entertained with something new, than drawing books that have already been marked up.
3) Purchase Toys and Games Designed for Traveling
To avoid the crying or nagging of dropped toys or other items, purchase games and activity centers that are designed specifically as travel toys. These items will usually have pens attached by a string to an activity book, and have magnetic pieces for games or puzzles.
By keeping everything within your child’s reach, and taking precautions for the unexpected, your child may have so much fun that he or she will not even realize how long you’ve been traveling. Having a variety of different engaging toys and games are even great for children to enjoy together.
4) Pick up a few Disposable Cameras
Investing in a few disposable cameras can create hours of fun for children, without the worry of it breaking or becoming damaged by an accidental drink spill, especially if you purchase the waterproof type. Give each child a camera and ask him or her to take pictures of items that he or she has never seen before. This makes it fun and can keep children occupied for hours if traveling by ground.
Once you arrive at your final destination, have your child’s pictures developed so he or she can immediately see what kind of pictures were taken. Younger children, especially, really enjoy taking pictures, so stocking up on a few disposable cameras can be a worthwhile investment.
5) Bring Along Electronic Items
Both older and younger children enjoy electronic items, such as DVD players, music players, and handheld gaming systems. Depending on the age of your child, a movie, for example, can easily deliver two hours of non-stop entertainment. If deciding to pack along electronics, always remember to pack extra car chargers or batteries.
Keeping children entertained when traveling is easy with some pre-planning. Children love to be busy seeing things and doing things, so making frequent stops if traveling by car can also be a great way to break up a long trip. Be creative and think from your child’s perspective. After all, no one knows what your child loves more than you.
Monday, December 2, 2013
3 Fun Ways to Teach Kids Spelling
Learning spelling words begins around the age of five. As your child begins to learn spelling words as the building block to writing and reading, he or she will need your help. To encourage your child to study and practice spelling words, the process needs to be engaging and fun. Here are three ideas that can help:
1) Phonics and Music
Some educators have dumped the curriculum of phonics, and others have continued to use it due to the positive results seen in a child’s spelling, writing, and reading. When a child learns the sounds of letters, it will be easier for him or her to learn to spell words.
To make learning phonics fun, there are different age level phonics sets that include CDs with music to learn the sounds of letters and how they come together to form words. The music engages your child and teaches him or her the basics without it being boring.
2) Flash and Flip
On some blank business cards, clearly write your child’s spelling words for the week. Let your child know that it’s time to play a game. Sit on the floor and place all the cards face down. You can start by flipping a card over, saying the word, spelling the word, flipping the card back over, and spelling the word without looking. Then have your child take a turn.
Playing along with your child encourages him or her to continue with the game. Even pretending to not know how to spell a word can create some cute giggles from your child. He or she won’t even think this game is about learning.
3) Toys and Technology
Technology is advancing faster than we can keep up with. Don’t be surprised if your child knows more about technology than you do. Electronic toys are a great way to continue the learning process with your child during long rides, shopping trips, or long waits at the doctor’s office. This interactivity has the ability to entertain your child for a period of time and make it fun.
For example, the Franklin Speak, Listen, and Learn Spelling Master allows you to type in spelling words and record your voice saying the words. Your child then sees the words and learns to spell the words he or she hears. This toy also has a word search game to keep learning fun for your child.
1) Phonics and Music
Some educators have dumped the curriculum of phonics, and others have continued to use it due to the positive results seen in a child’s spelling, writing, and reading. When a child learns the sounds of letters, it will be easier for him or her to learn to spell words.
To make learning phonics fun, there are different age level phonics sets that include CDs with music to learn the sounds of letters and how they come together to form words. The music engages your child and teaches him or her the basics without it being boring.
2) Flash and Flip
On some blank business cards, clearly write your child’s spelling words for the week. Let your child know that it’s time to play a game. Sit on the floor and place all the cards face down. You can start by flipping a card over, saying the word, spelling the word, flipping the card back over, and spelling the word without looking. Then have your child take a turn.
Playing along with your child encourages him or her to continue with the game. Even pretending to not know how to spell a word can create some cute giggles from your child. He or she won’t even think this game is about learning.
3) Toys and Technology
Technology is advancing faster than we can keep up with. Don’t be surprised if your child knows more about technology than you do. Electronic toys are a great way to continue the learning process with your child during long rides, shopping trips, or long waits at the doctor’s office. This interactivity has the ability to entertain your child for a period of time and make it fun.
For example, the Franklin Speak, Listen, and Learn Spelling Master allows you to type in spelling words and record your voice saying the words. Your child then sees the words and learns to spell the words he or she hears. This toy also has a word search game to keep learning fun for your child.
Friday, November 22, 2013
Cutting Costs on Your Christms Gifts
We all love to both give and receive gifts, especially toys for your kids, but unfortunately that can add up to a lot of debt around the holidays. If you need to get the most out of every penny then here are ten tips that’ll help you do just that.
1) Search the Web for Deals
There's no doubt about it - shopping online really is the best way to get deals and save money at Christmas time. Here are a few ideas on where to find them:
Search for Coupons: Before shopping with any online store, do a quick search for "Store Name + coupon code". Often there'll be nothing available, but when you do find a coupon it's well worth having spent the extra two minutes searching for it!
Sign Up to A Cashback Website: There are a number of cashback websites that cost you nothing to join, and will give you a percentage of your purchase back after a certain period of time. You'll usually only get 1-5% back, but it's still a saving! Note that you won't get your cashback payout immediately, but it'll be a nice boost in the months after Christmas.
Check Groupon: Groupon has become hugely popular with shoppers looking for a deal, so make sure to sign up to email updates months in advance of Christmas. Not only can it help you save on certain goods, but you'll also find experiences like spa days, photo shoots and days out that all make excellent gifts!
Black Friday/ Cyber Monday Sales: Many online stores now have mega sales after Thanksgiving, so get online and see what you can find. Amazon, for example, has a number of very limited discount items. But you really do have to login early on the day to be in with a chance of getting them!
Deals on Site: Many sites will have their own specific deals, like "buy one get one free" or free shipping when you spend $X. Remember, only take advantage of these deals if you actually need extras!
2) Save Money on Christmas Cards
Don't forget that the cost of buying and sending Christmas cards can also add to your holiday spend. There are a few ways you can save in this area:
We have already established that shopping online really is the best way to save money - but there's another great thing about shopping online: comparison sites! A number of websites will now do the comparing for you so you don't have to spend hours surfing around various retailers and making a note of their prices.
It's worth always having the comparison mindset. If you see something in a store, you can always go online later that day to see if you can find it cheaper from somewhere else. But don't forget to include the price of shipping in your comparison, as this is a cost you will save if buying from a bricks-and-mortar retailer.
1) Search the Web for Deals
There's no doubt about it - shopping online really is the best way to get deals and save money at Christmas time. Here are a few ideas on where to find them:
Search for Coupons: Before shopping with any online store, do a quick search for "Store Name + coupon code". Often there'll be nothing available, but when you do find a coupon it's well worth having spent the extra two minutes searching for it!
Sign Up to A Cashback Website: There are a number of cashback websites that cost you nothing to join, and will give you a percentage of your purchase back after a certain period of time. You'll usually only get 1-5% back, but it's still a saving! Note that you won't get your cashback payout immediately, but it'll be a nice boost in the months after Christmas.
Check Groupon: Groupon has become hugely popular with shoppers looking for a deal, so make sure to sign up to email updates months in advance of Christmas. Not only can it help you save on certain goods, but you'll also find experiences like spa days, photo shoots and days out that all make excellent gifts!
Black Friday/ Cyber Monday Sales: Many online stores now have mega sales after Thanksgiving, so get online and see what you can find. Amazon, for example, has a number of very limited discount items. But you really do have to login early on the day to be in with a chance of getting them!
Deals on Site: Many sites will have their own specific deals, like "buy one get one free" or free shipping when you spend $X. Remember, only take advantage of these deals if you actually need extras!
2) Save Money on Christmas Cards
Don't forget that the cost of buying and sending Christmas cards can also add to your holiday spend. There are a few ways you can save in this area:
- You could send eCards instead of physical cards (you can still send paper cards to the really important people).
- You could avoid sending cards altogether and phone everyone who is important to you instead.
- You can deliver some of the cards by hand to save on postage costs.
- You could make your own cards.
- Or, if you do want to send cards, send them as early as possible to get the cheapest postage costs.
We have already established that shopping online really is the best way to save money - but there's another great thing about shopping online: comparison sites! A number of websites will now do the comparing for you so you don't have to spend hours surfing around various retailers and making a note of their prices.
It's worth always having the comparison mindset. If you see something in a store, you can always go online later that day to see if you can find it cheaper from somewhere else. But don't forget to include the price of shipping in your comparison, as this is a cost you will save if buying from a bricks-and-mortar retailer.
Wednesday, November 13, 2013
5 Useful Tips for Shopping Online for Toys this Christmas
1) Find Delivery/ Returns Deals
If possible, try to shop from places that offer free delivery when you order a certain amount. Delivery prices can really add up if you're not careful, so this will save you money right away.
Some bigger retailers will even offer free returns - meaning that you won't need to pay the postage costs yourself. This is especially handy when it comes to gifts for kids, since you never know when they won't be happy with what you've bought them!
2) Shop for Toys on the Best Bargain Days
Although it's always a good idea to shop for toys early - especially to make sure they're still in stock - there is one reason you might want to wait and that's to time your Christmas shopping for the best deals. Here's a guide to the best sales in the run up to Christmas Day.
Halloween - Early November: This is an excellent time to shop if you're organized. The retailers are already thinking about Christmas, even if most of us aren't, and they will often have sales running for those who are ready to take advantage. It may not be anything obvious, but it's well worth keeping your eyes and ears open to see if anything comes up.
Black Friday/ Cyber Monday: The biggest shopping days before Christmas come right after Thanksgiving. Traditionally this was something that only really applied to brick-and-mortar stores on the day after Thanksgiving - nicknamed "Black Friday" - but now a number of online retailers have gotten in on the act with their own "Cyber Monday". Amazon, for example, has a number of lightning deals with a limited number of items available at steep discounts for very short windows of time. You'll need to be on the ball and online throughout the day, but it's well worth it if you can snap up some deals.
The Last Days Before Christmas: In recent years retailers have been starting their post-Christmas sales early, and many last-minute shoppers have been able to grab some real bargains in the last 2-3 days before Christmas. Just remember, if it's a very popular toy your child is after then it's likely that it will have completely sold out by this time, so proceed with caution!
3) Check the Package Before Christmas Day
Nobody wants a faulty gift, but this is even more of a big deal when you're a child. To avoid disappointment when they open their gifts on Christmas day, open them up beforehand yourself to check that everything is working as it should.
If it's a toy that needs to be assembled, this means checking that all the parts are included in the box. You might even want to assemble the toy yourself before Christmas day to make sure it's all ready to be played with. If it's an electronic toy, get it out of the box, add in some batteries and make sure it all works properly.
Although it might seem like overkill, it's always worth a few minutes checking beforehand to avoid a lot of tears afterwards! Do it early and it also means you've got time to send an item back and get a refund if you need to.
4) Check the Returns Policy
Unfortunately sometimes we just don't get it right with our kids' gifts, so it's important that you buy from a store that has a good returns policy.
If there's a fault with the toy then all stores have to take it back, but they might not do so if you're simply returning it because your child doesn't like it. Thankfully most of the well-known retailers have solid returns policies in place around Christmas time, often extending the returns period until after Christmas.
This is why buying from third party sellers is a lot more risky, as they often won't accept any returns at all.
5) Don't Forget the Batteries!
Last, but certainly not least, don't forget to make sure you have some batteries on hand for Christmas day! There's nothing more frustrating for a child than to open their favorite gift but to realize they need batteries to use it. If you don't have any in the house, the chances are that the store won't even be open on Christmas day!
So avoid their sad little faces and check whether batteries come included with any electronic toys you buy. If the toy has a charger instead, charge it up ready for Christmas day so that your child can get playing right away.
If possible, try to shop from places that offer free delivery when you order a certain amount. Delivery prices can really add up if you're not careful, so this will save you money right away.
Some bigger retailers will even offer free returns - meaning that you won't need to pay the postage costs yourself. This is especially handy when it comes to gifts for kids, since you never know when they won't be happy with what you've bought them!
2) Shop for Toys on the Best Bargain Days
Although it's always a good idea to shop for toys early - especially to make sure they're still in stock - there is one reason you might want to wait and that's to time your Christmas shopping for the best deals. Here's a guide to the best sales in the run up to Christmas Day.
Halloween - Early November: This is an excellent time to shop if you're organized. The retailers are already thinking about Christmas, even if most of us aren't, and they will often have sales running for those who are ready to take advantage. It may not be anything obvious, but it's well worth keeping your eyes and ears open to see if anything comes up.
Black Friday/ Cyber Monday: The biggest shopping days before Christmas come right after Thanksgiving. Traditionally this was something that only really applied to brick-and-mortar stores on the day after Thanksgiving - nicknamed "Black Friday" - but now a number of online retailers have gotten in on the act with their own "Cyber Monday". Amazon, for example, has a number of lightning deals with a limited number of items available at steep discounts for very short windows of time. You'll need to be on the ball and online throughout the day, but it's well worth it if you can snap up some deals.
The Last Days Before Christmas: In recent years retailers have been starting their post-Christmas sales early, and many last-minute shoppers have been able to grab some real bargains in the last 2-3 days before Christmas. Just remember, if it's a very popular toy your child is after then it's likely that it will have completely sold out by this time, so proceed with caution!
3) Check the Package Before Christmas Day
Nobody wants a faulty gift, but this is even more of a big deal when you're a child. To avoid disappointment when they open their gifts on Christmas day, open them up beforehand yourself to check that everything is working as it should.
If it's a toy that needs to be assembled, this means checking that all the parts are included in the box. You might even want to assemble the toy yourself before Christmas day to make sure it's all ready to be played with. If it's an electronic toy, get it out of the box, add in some batteries and make sure it all works properly.
Although it might seem like overkill, it's always worth a few minutes checking beforehand to avoid a lot of tears afterwards! Do it early and it also means you've got time to send an item back and get a refund if you need to.
4) Check the Returns Policy
Unfortunately sometimes we just don't get it right with our kids' gifts, so it's important that you buy from a store that has a good returns policy.
If there's a fault with the toy then all stores have to take it back, but they might not do so if you're simply returning it because your child doesn't like it. Thankfully most of the well-known retailers have solid returns policies in place around Christmas time, often extending the returns period until after Christmas.
This is why buying from third party sellers is a lot more risky, as they often won't accept any returns at all.
5) Don't Forget the Batteries!
Last, but certainly not least, don't forget to make sure you have some batteries on hand for Christmas day! There's nothing more frustrating for a child than to open their favorite gift but to realize they need batteries to use it. If you don't have any in the house, the chances are that the store won't even be open on Christmas day!
So avoid their sad little faces and check whether batteries come included with any electronic toys you buy. If the toy has a charger instead, charge it up ready for Christmas day so that your child can get playing right away.
Thursday, October 31, 2013
A Guide to Child’s Development and Important Toys at Age 7-8
Children don’t all develop in the exact same way, at the exact same time. Development milestones should be looked at as guidelines – nothing more. Understand that child development, as so many other things, is not predictable.
Each child’s development has the potential to be influenced by his or her environment, DNA, and life’s personal experiences. Just the way each child has his or her own personality, the process of development towards adulthood is unique.
However, there are milestones that are worth looking to for each age range. Here’s what to look out for in 7-8 year olds.
Knowledge and Learning Style
Your child may begin to enjoy sharing what he or she has learned with parents, siblings, and just about anyone who is willing to listen with interest. He or she may also begin to demonstrate a greater attention span and become a better problem solver. Learning starts to peak, due to an increase in understanding, becoming more curious, and having a desire to learn, not only in school, but about the world around them.
As the area of technology continues to increase and expand, where children are using it in their learning as well as entertainment, electronic gadgets are great learning tools. These include eReaders or tablets that can be loaded with age-appropriate reading and electronic games.
Motor Skills
At this stage, there is an increase in your child’s motor skills and desire to participate in physical games and activities, such as structured sports. You may also notice that your child can run for a longer period of time with better form, and kick or catch a ball with more accuracy. This is a great time to introduce your child to playing on a local sporting team.
Toys that encourage this specific area may include a basketball set that is adjustable in height, soccer ball and practice nets, bicycle, and even a jungle gym set. Encourage outdoor play and less indoor gaming for overall good health.
Creativity
You can help your child adjust in this area by exposing him or her to art, music, plays, and even different forms of dancing. As body awareness becomes more evident, so does your child’s focus and concentration, such as in reading or watching plays.
Some of the best toys to encourage creativity are drawing easels, sketch pads, dramatic play with dolls and puppets, and character dress-up, where your child can dress up as his or her favorite television or movie character. There is no limit to creativity.
Each child’s development has the potential to be influenced by his or her environment, DNA, and life’s personal experiences. Just the way each child has his or her own personality, the process of development towards adulthood is unique.
However, there are milestones that are worth looking to for each age range. Here’s what to look out for in 7-8 year olds.
Knowledge and Learning Style
Your child may begin to enjoy sharing what he or she has learned with parents, siblings, and just about anyone who is willing to listen with interest. He or she may also begin to demonstrate a greater attention span and become a better problem solver. Learning starts to peak, due to an increase in understanding, becoming more curious, and having a desire to learn, not only in school, but about the world around them.
As the area of technology continues to increase and expand, where children are using it in their learning as well as entertainment, electronic gadgets are great learning tools. These include eReaders or tablets that can be loaded with age-appropriate reading and electronic games.
Motor Skills
At this stage, there is an increase in your child’s motor skills and desire to participate in physical games and activities, such as structured sports. You may also notice that your child can run for a longer period of time with better form, and kick or catch a ball with more accuracy. This is a great time to introduce your child to playing on a local sporting team.
Toys that encourage this specific area may include a basketball set that is adjustable in height, soccer ball and practice nets, bicycle, and even a jungle gym set. Encourage outdoor play and less indoor gaming for overall good health.
Creativity
You can help your child adjust in this area by exposing him or her to art, music, plays, and even different forms of dancing. As body awareness becomes more evident, so does your child’s focus and concentration, such as in reading or watching plays.
Some of the best toys to encourage creativity are drawing easels, sketch pads, dramatic play with dolls and puppets, and character dress-up, where your child can dress up as his or her favorite television or movie character. There is no limit to creativity.
Wednesday, October 23, 2013
Dealing with Fear: A Guide for Parents of Anxious Children
Do you have a fearful child? It is not uncommon for young children to express anxiety about a number of topics, including "monsters," the dark or even going to school. The good news is, you can help your little one manage their fears while improving your relationship at the same time. Read on for a few tips to help you with this situation.
Recognize Where Fear Comes From
Children are afraid of things they do not understand. Little ones, in particular, do not have the ability to think through new experiences to figure out what is going on and how to cope with it. In addition, starting at around age two, children begin to develop an imagination, which can also increase fear. A child may be able to picture a monster in their mind, but at the same time, they have difficulty understanding that the monster isn't real. It is important for your child to be able to manage their fear, because it sets the stage for how they will deal with other emotions later in their life. As their parent, you can be a crucial support during this process.
Reassure Your Little One
If your child expresses fear, start by telling them that everyone gets afraid sometimes. Thank them for telling you how they feel. From there, make sure they know that you and your partner will do everything you can to keep them safe. However, make sure you don't tell your child not to be afraid or ridicule them for expressing this emotion. It won't help them get over their fears and it may lead to a situation where they do not feel comfortable confiding in you any longer. Always acknowledge what your child is saying to you, but try and find a balance between giving them too much attention for their fears and ignoring them.
Help With Bedtime
Children often feel anxious at bedtime for two reasons. First, the dark can be scary. In addition, it can be difficult to be away from you and your partner for long periods of time. To help with the adjustment, make sure your child has a nightlight. Establish a bedtime routine, where you read a story or sing a song to get your little one to relax. You can also purchase a sound machine so there is some background noise in the room.
Once your child reaches the age of four or five years old, you can begin helping them manage their fear of the darkness. Have him or her draw pictures of the dark; it could help you see if there is a specific fear, like a monster living in the closet, that you weren't aware of before. Also, play games together in the dark (with a flashlight) to help your child get used to the experience of being in an area without light.
Having fears and anxieties as a child is very normal. You can help your child learn coping skills that will be valuable to them later in life by using the tips included above.
Recognize Where Fear Comes From
Children are afraid of things they do not understand. Little ones, in particular, do not have the ability to think through new experiences to figure out what is going on and how to cope with it. In addition, starting at around age two, children begin to develop an imagination, which can also increase fear. A child may be able to picture a monster in their mind, but at the same time, they have difficulty understanding that the monster isn't real. It is important for your child to be able to manage their fear, because it sets the stage for how they will deal with other emotions later in their life. As their parent, you can be a crucial support during this process.
Reassure Your Little One
If your child expresses fear, start by telling them that everyone gets afraid sometimes. Thank them for telling you how they feel. From there, make sure they know that you and your partner will do everything you can to keep them safe. However, make sure you don't tell your child not to be afraid or ridicule them for expressing this emotion. It won't help them get over their fears and it may lead to a situation where they do not feel comfortable confiding in you any longer. Always acknowledge what your child is saying to you, but try and find a balance between giving them too much attention for their fears and ignoring them.
Help With Bedtime
Children often feel anxious at bedtime for two reasons. First, the dark can be scary. In addition, it can be difficult to be away from you and your partner for long periods of time. To help with the adjustment, make sure your child has a nightlight. Establish a bedtime routine, where you read a story or sing a song to get your little one to relax. You can also purchase a sound machine so there is some background noise in the room.
Once your child reaches the age of four or five years old, you can begin helping them manage their fear of the darkness. Have him or her draw pictures of the dark; it could help you see if there is a specific fear, like a monster living in the closet, that you weren't aware of before. Also, play games together in the dark (with a flashlight) to help your child get used to the experience of being in an area without light.
Having fears and anxieties as a child is very normal. You can help your child learn coping skills that will be valuable to them later in life by using the tips included above.
Thursday, October 17, 2013
Bonding With Your Baby: Forming a Lifetime Relationship
We have all heard how newborn animals bond with their parents, imprint on them and learn from them. It is the same with humans. You may not realize it, but you and your newborn need to bond during the first few weeks of life, and this bonding will be the beginning of a long, and satisfying, relationship. Good bonding has been shown to impact a child's adult life as well, enabling him to form lasting, successful relationships as he grows.
Your baby is unique, and uses his own set of signals to express his needs and wants. During the first months of your baby's life, you will learn how his cries can signal hunger, or tiredness and how his body movements indicate his mood and excitement. Soon, before he can even talk, you will know your baby like a book. The secret is to really pay attention to your child and spend lots of time learning from him.
One of the most important ways you can bond with your baby is by spending a lot of time looking at him. Look deep into his eyes as he is feeding, whether by breast or bottle, talking soothingly to him. Make interesting facial expressions with him as you change his diaper, or while you hold him. Be sure to talk to him all the time, explaining what you are doing, even though he is too young to understand. He will soon associate your voice with comfort and happiness. Your baby will learn that you are his parent, and the most special person in his life.
You can bond with your baby through play and laughter. For infants, it is fun to play body part games, such as little piggy and patty cake. Soon, you will find that he is trying to do the motions with his own hands. Laughing is great fun for babies, and he will learn to imitate your laughter and facial expressions, as well as cultivating a wonderful relationship with you.
It can be difficult for dads to bond with their babies, due to long workdays, and children being in bed sometimes when they come home. But dads need to bond with their babies too. A good way to encourage the bonding experience between dad and baby is to let him feed the baby a bottle once in a while. Once breastfeeding is established, it doesn't hurt to give daddy a bottle, so that he can experience the eye contact and body language that is so important in a baby's first months.
Bedtime routines can be a special bonding experience. A warm bath, nighttime feeding and a couple of picture books make for a relaxing evening that is conducive to peaceful sleep. Be creative, and come up with your own bedtime traditions, as this is an important time in your child's day.
There is a lot to learn when you have a newborn or infant in your life, and it is crucial that the bonding process is encouraged every day. If you just follow your feelings, and your baby's actions, you will learn about him every day, as he learns about you. Good bonding will jump-start your relationship, and pave the way for a lifetime of love!
Your baby is unique, and uses his own set of signals to express his needs and wants. During the first months of your baby's life, you will learn how his cries can signal hunger, or tiredness and how his body movements indicate his mood and excitement. Soon, before he can even talk, you will know your baby like a book. The secret is to really pay attention to your child and spend lots of time learning from him.
One of the most important ways you can bond with your baby is by spending a lot of time looking at him. Look deep into his eyes as he is feeding, whether by breast or bottle, talking soothingly to him. Make interesting facial expressions with him as you change his diaper, or while you hold him. Be sure to talk to him all the time, explaining what you are doing, even though he is too young to understand. He will soon associate your voice with comfort and happiness. Your baby will learn that you are his parent, and the most special person in his life.
You can bond with your baby through play and laughter. For infants, it is fun to play body part games, such as little piggy and patty cake. Soon, you will find that he is trying to do the motions with his own hands. Laughing is great fun for babies, and he will learn to imitate your laughter and facial expressions, as well as cultivating a wonderful relationship with you.
It can be difficult for dads to bond with their babies, due to long workdays, and children being in bed sometimes when they come home. But dads need to bond with their babies too. A good way to encourage the bonding experience between dad and baby is to let him feed the baby a bottle once in a while. Once breastfeeding is established, it doesn't hurt to give daddy a bottle, so that he can experience the eye contact and body language that is so important in a baby's first months.
Bedtime routines can be a special bonding experience. A warm bath, nighttime feeding and a couple of picture books make for a relaxing evening that is conducive to peaceful sleep. Be creative, and come up with your own bedtime traditions, as this is an important time in your child's day.
There is a lot to learn when you have a newborn or infant in your life, and it is crucial that the bonding process is encouraged every day. If you just follow your feelings, and your baby's actions, you will learn about him every day, as he learns about you. Good bonding will jump-start your relationship, and pave the way for a lifetime of love!
Tuesday, October 8, 2013
A Few Tips For New Parents
Becoming a parent is a very exciting experience but a lot of new parents also feel stressed because of their lack of experience. You should go over this article for some useful information on parenting strategies you can use.
Reading parenting books can be helpful but you should not attempt to follow absolutely everything you read. Keep in mind that parenting books are written by professionals who have developed their own method. You will probably find some methods more interesting than others but it is best to raise your children by using your common sense and following your gut feeling instead of always referring to a method. The same thing is true with parenting classes.
Always remember that there are no perfect parents. Do not blame yourself if you make a mistake or feel like you have a hard time communicating with your children. Try the best you can and make sure your children understand that you deeply care. Tell your children you love them and do what you think is best for them. If you feel like you need help with parenting, talk to your friends or relatives for advice or consider taking a parenting class.
Parenting is easier if you work as a team. Talk to your significant other about the parenting strategies you want to use and the values you want to teach your children. It is important to be consistent in the rules you establish for your children and in the punishments you implement. You should talk about your children regularly and make important decisions together. Do not hesitate to turn to your close relatives if you need help with parenting.
Put as much money aside as possible to build a better future for your children. You should open up some savings accounts and save up for emergencies. Consider opening a 529 plan so you can start saving for the education of your children. Try finding a better job so you can move to a safe area and be closer to quality schools. Keep in mind that providing a safe environment for your children should be your priority. Make sacrifices if necessary, for instance by getting rid of small luxuries.
Get to know your children. The strategies you use for parenting should be adapted to the personality of your children. Spend some quality time with them and communicate as much as possible. You should ask them about their day at school once they are old enough. Talk to your toddlers, sing songs together and play games to establish communication. Your children are unique and it is important that you get to know them so you can adapt to their specific needs and interests. Keeping a strong connection with your teenagers will be easier if your children get used to communicating with you openly from a young age.
Apply these different parenting tips and do more research on this interesting topic so you can raise happy children. Keep in mind that parenting gets much easier as you gain more experience and confidence.
Reading parenting books can be helpful but you should not attempt to follow absolutely everything you read. Keep in mind that parenting books are written by professionals who have developed their own method. You will probably find some methods more interesting than others but it is best to raise your children by using your common sense and following your gut feeling instead of always referring to a method. The same thing is true with parenting classes.
Always remember that there are no perfect parents. Do not blame yourself if you make a mistake or feel like you have a hard time communicating with your children. Try the best you can and make sure your children understand that you deeply care. Tell your children you love them and do what you think is best for them. If you feel like you need help with parenting, talk to your friends or relatives for advice or consider taking a parenting class.
Parenting is easier if you work as a team. Talk to your significant other about the parenting strategies you want to use and the values you want to teach your children. It is important to be consistent in the rules you establish for your children and in the punishments you implement. You should talk about your children regularly and make important decisions together. Do not hesitate to turn to your close relatives if you need help with parenting.
Put as much money aside as possible to build a better future for your children. You should open up some savings accounts and save up for emergencies. Consider opening a 529 plan so you can start saving for the education of your children. Try finding a better job so you can move to a safe area and be closer to quality schools. Keep in mind that providing a safe environment for your children should be your priority. Make sacrifices if necessary, for instance by getting rid of small luxuries.
Get to know your children. The strategies you use for parenting should be adapted to the personality of your children. Spend some quality time with them and communicate as much as possible. You should ask them about their day at school once they are old enough. Talk to your toddlers, sing songs together and play games to establish communication. Your children are unique and it is important that you get to know them so you can adapt to their specific needs and interests. Keeping a strong connection with your teenagers will be easier if your children get used to communicating with you openly from a young age.
Apply these different parenting tips and do more research on this interesting topic so you can raise happy children. Keep in mind that parenting gets much easier as you gain more experience and confidence.
Wednesday, July 17, 2013
The Benefits Of Action Figures For Kids
Who doesn’t love action figures? For as long as they have been around, they have been the delight of children everywhere. That’s right, not just boys, but children in general, as there’s no reason why girls can’t enjoy playing with action figures, too. Sure, action figures are fun for kids to play with, but are there actually any educational benefits to purchasing them for your children? Actually, there are!
Benefit 1: Imagination
Firstly, action figures are great tools for children to use their imagination as they create scenarios for their action figures to take part in. It helps them vocalize their imaginative thoughts, and this helps them develop their speech as well.
Secondly, action figures help kids learn the difference between good and bad, as they usually imagine up scenarios where one action figure is the hero while the other is a villain. Using action figures, parents can teach their kids the difference between good and bad values or actions. This can help them in social scenarios as they grow older.
Benefit 2: Learning Additional Skills
Action figures are a good way to teach kids other things as well. For example, you can teach kids how to count by using the action figures as objects to count. Teaching basic addition and subtraction is possible using the same concept.
You can also teach kids to identify colors and features using action figures as well, for example, by asking kids to pick out all the action heroes in green from a lineup of different action figures, or asking them to select all the superheroes that wear masks on their faces. There are many ways in which you can incorporate action figures into learning; you just have to use a little bit of imagination.
Benefit 3: Collecting
Lastly, action figures are great collector’s items, so that’s a benefit on its own. Action figures are quite durable, so it’s possible that years down the line your child will still treasure his or her action figure collection, and he or she may even become a serious collector.
It’s clear to see that there are many benefits to buying action figures for your kids. Pretty much all playtime is also learning time for kids; it’s amazing how much they learn from imagining their toys in different scenarios. Let your kids choose action figures based on popular characters they like to help them get the most out of them.
Benefit 1: Imagination
Firstly, action figures are great tools for children to use their imagination as they create scenarios for their action figures to take part in. It helps them vocalize their imaginative thoughts, and this helps them develop their speech as well.
Secondly, action figures help kids learn the difference between good and bad, as they usually imagine up scenarios where one action figure is the hero while the other is a villain. Using action figures, parents can teach their kids the difference between good and bad values or actions. This can help them in social scenarios as they grow older.
Benefit 2: Learning Additional Skills
Action figures are a good way to teach kids other things as well. For example, you can teach kids how to count by using the action figures as objects to count. Teaching basic addition and subtraction is possible using the same concept.
You can also teach kids to identify colors and features using action figures as well, for example, by asking kids to pick out all the action heroes in green from a lineup of different action figures, or asking them to select all the superheroes that wear masks on their faces. There are many ways in which you can incorporate action figures into learning; you just have to use a little bit of imagination.
Benefit 3: Collecting
Lastly, action figures are great collector’s items, so that’s a benefit on its own. Action figures are quite durable, so it’s possible that years down the line your child will still treasure his or her action figure collection, and he or she may even become a serious collector.
It’s clear to see that there are many benefits to buying action figures for your kids. Pretty much all playtime is also learning time for kids; it’s amazing how much they learn from imagining their toys in different scenarios. Let your kids choose action figures based on popular characters they like to help them get the most out of them.
Saturday, July 6, 2013
The Pros And Cons Of Letting Your Kids Play With Video Games
Almost all children love to play video games and most parents wonder if there is any harm in it. Here you can learn the pros and cons of letting your kids play with video games.
The Pros
Playing video games does not mean that children have to play alone. Multiplayer games let kids interact with each other and give parents the chance to do something with their children that they will both enjoy. Kids learn to work as a team and still develop social skills by spending time with others while playing.
All kids need outdoor time, but on rainy days or during inclement weather, video games are a good way to pass the time while still developing hand eye coordination and simple motor skills. If the games have motion sensors, like Xbox Kinect and Wii, kids can still get in a little exercise. While video games are a good supplement to exercise, it should not be their main source of physical activity.
Many hand held video games and video games in general, offer educational games as well. The Nintendo DS has games to help kids learn another language, practice math facts and even learn to read. To get the most out of game play time, look for games that are fun but also help your child learn something.
The Cons
Children who spend too much time glued to video games lack social interactions do not develop the personal skills they need. Even though there are games that let your children play along with motion sensor, they only burn less than half the calories that they would playing in “real life.”
Just like adults, children can also suffer from addictions. Video games are a toy and that is how they should be treated, not as a necessity. Parents find video games as an easy option to spending time with their kids or they use them as an electronic babysitter. Each child needs to have a time limit to their video game play or some form of parental control.
Video games and consoles are not cheap, every child wants them but they may not be mature enough to have them. Game systems like Leapster are a little more sturdy than a PS3 or Nintendo DS 3D, but each one is a pretty hefty investment. A kick ball or a jump rope are quite a bit cheaper and quality time with the family does not cost a thing.
The Pros
Playing video games does not mean that children have to play alone. Multiplayer games let kids interact with each other and give parents the chance to do something with their children that they will both enjoy. Kids learn to work as a team and still develop social skills by spending time with others while playing.
All kids need outdoor time, but on rainy days or during inclement weather, video games are a good way to pass the time while still developing hand eye coordination and simple motor skills. If the games have motion sensors, like Xbox Kinect and Wii, kids can still get in a little exercise. While video games are a good supplement to exercise, it should not be their main source of physical activity.
Many hand held video games and video games in general, offer educational games as well. The Nintendo DS has games to help kids learn another language, practice math facts and even learn to read. To get the most out of game play time, look for games that are fun but also help your child learn something.
The Cons
Children who spend too much time glued to video games lack social interactions do not develop the personal skills they need. Even though there are games that let your children play along with motion sensor, they only burn less than half the calories that they would playing in “real life.”
Just like adults, children can also suffer from addictions. Video games are a toy and that is how they should be treated, not as a necessity. Parents find video games as an easy option to spending time with their kids or they use them as an electronic babysitter. Each child needs to have a time limit to their video game play or some form of parental control.
Video games and consoles are not cheap, every child wants them but they may not be mature enough to have them. Game systems like Leapster are a little more sturdy than a PS3 or Nintendo DS 3D, but each one is a pretty hefty investment. A kick ball or a jump rope are quite a bit cheaper and quality time with the family does not cost a thing.
Monday, May 27, 2013
The Advantages of Lego Duplo Toys
Lego has been a common household name for many years. After all, their toys are a favorite among children. With so many Lego lines to choose from, you must be wondering what should you get for your young kids. Well, one Lego product that’s great for kids is Lego Duplo.
Lego Duplo bricks are specially designed for toddlers between the age of 18 months to 5 years. If you’re a parent who wants the best for your little one, you’ll be pleased to know of the benefits of Lego Duplo toys.
Lego Duplo bricks are made from non-toxic material making them safe for toddlers even if they chomp on the bricks. The bricks are also large, so young toddlers can easily hold the toys in their hands.
They come in a variety of bright colors and shapes to grab the attention of children and stimulate their minds.
Children can build various structures by either referring to the easy-to-follow instructions included with the Duplo set, or let their imaginations run wild and mix and match pieces to create their own masterpiece.
Playing with Lego Duplo allows toddlers to practice their motor skills and develop their creativity, which they can use later in life.
Lego Duplo is also a great toy to use to teach kids about sharing. Children can play together and help each other build the structure they want. Plus, parents can also participate and spend some quality time with their kids by playing Lego Duplo.
The toys come in various sets with different themes, so parents can always choose the right Lego Duplo set for their kids. Some popular Lego Duplo themes include zoos, fire station, and even princesses.
If you’ve played with Lego toys in your childhood, then you definitely know how fun it can be for kids to play with them. These toy bricks are not only suitable for toddlers, but also for older kids. Since Lego Duplo pieces are compatible with other Lego bricks, you can always mix and match Duplo and other Lego pieces together.
Lego Duplo toys allow your children’s imagination to blossom as your young ones learn how to role play and create stories with the toys. These toys not only help your kids’ minds to grow, but they are also a lot of fun to play with. That makes them a great learning tool to use with your children.
Lego Duplo bricks are specially designed for toddlers between the age of 18 months to 5 years. If you’re a parent who wants the best for your little one, you’ll be pleased to know of the benefits of Lego Duplo toys.
Lego Duplo bricks are made from non-toxic material making them safe for toddlers even if they chomp on the bricks. The bricks are also large, so young toddlers can easily hold the toys in their hands.
They come in a variety of bright colors and shapes to grab the attention of children and stimulate their minds.
Children can build various structures by either referring to the easy-to-follow instructions included with the Duplo set, or let their imaginations run wild and mix and match pieces to create their own masterpiece.
Playing with Lego Duplo allows toddlers to practice their motor skills and develop their creativity, which they can use later in life.
Lego Duplo is also a great toy to use to teach kids about sharing. Children can play together and help each other build the structure they want. Plus, parents can also participate and spend some quality time with their kids by playing Lego Duplo.
The toys come in various sets with different themes, so parents can always choose the right Lego Duplo set for their kids. Some popular Lego Duplo themes include zoos, fire station, and even princesses.
If you’ve played with Lego toys in your childhood, then you definitely know how fun it can be for kids to play with them. These toy bricks are not only suitable for toddlers, but also for older kids. Since Lego Duplo pieces are compatible with other Lego bricks, you can always mix and match Duplo and other Lego pieces together.
Lego Duplo toys allow your children’s imagination to blossom as your young ones learn how to role play and create stories with the toys. These toys not only help your kids’ minds to grow, but they are also a lot of fun to play with. That makes them a great learning tool to use with your children.
Monday, April 1, 2013
Why You Should Cook with Your Kids
Kids love to be engaged in activities, especially those that involve spending time with their parents or grandparents. When children are young, they are fascinated with new things and always take pride in being a “little helper”.
Cooking is one activity that children enjoy doing with an adult. Their first response after the excitement of being asked to help is most likely “let me do it”. There are some important benefits to allowing your young child to cook with you.
Identifying Role in the Family
When young kids are encouraged to take part in preparing a family meal, it gives them a sense of belonging. Even if he or she is an only child, participating in the comforting preparation of a meal allows the child to feel a part of the family.
Many times a child is only allowed to play with their toys, for example. This is entertaining for the child, but it doesn’t identify his or her role in the family. Working together on a task allows for this role identity.
Feeling of Belonging
As a child begins to grow and understand certain roles that everyone plays in the family, there also exists the yearning of belonging. Cooking together and encouraging a child to actively participate in the preparation of the meal makes him or her feel that he or she belongs – that he or she is part of the family.
Cooking together with a child and allowing him or her to do even the simplest things, such as washing and tearing the lettuce to create a salad, causes a child to feel the sense of belonging. This is a critical part in a child’s development and self-esteem.
Understanding Household Tasks are for Everyone
By not identifying cooking to one person’s role in the family, it allows a child to develop in a manner that does not identify certain tasks to certain genders. For example, by allowing a male child to cook with his mother, he learns quickly that not only females cook, but males cook as well.
Wanting a child to see the two sexes as equal is supported by the simple task of daily cooking. The child will then start to understand that the household chores are to be shared with everyone. This can further develop into the understanding that there is no limit to what he or she can do in life with no dependence on his or her sex.
Increasing the Learning Curve
A child learning to assist with cooking the family meal can also be a learning experience in math and reading, which are the two most critical educational contents in today’s world. Showing a child how much a cup of flour is, how to double the recipe, or even how to adjust cooking times for certain meals teaches a child the basics in math.
Having the child read a recipe along with following the steps of the recipe teaches reading, comprehension, and sequential importance. These are all important aspects needed to allow a child to read at or above his or her grade level.
Saturday, February 9, 2013
How Many Are Too Many Toys For Your Child?
Spoiling your child is a natural instinct. As a parent we want to give our children everything they want. We want to see our children happy and we want our children to feel loved. We don’t want to see our children deprived of anything in this world. We sometime acquaint this to being a good parent.
During the holidays, we may sometimes feel that the more toys we buy for a child, the more they will feel love and love us. There are probably so many toys that your child wants for the holidays, but when is enough, enough?
Toys Do Not Equal Love
No amount of toys given to a child can compare to the love that you can give your child. Yes, children love toys as they are a lot of fun, engage the mind, and entice creativity; however, that would not matter without your love.
Remember that it is not about how much you give. Sometimes it is just simply giving from the heart according to your budget. Children often have their minds set on certain toys, but it should be explained to them that they can’t always receive everything they want.
Have Your Child Make a List
To resolve the issue of you trying to figure out what to buy your child, and your child asking for numerous toys that they want, have your child make a list of their most wanted toys. Have your child list all the toys they would want without holding back.
Now you take the list and inform your child that they may receive some of the items on the list, but not all. Even if you have the money to buy all the toys, it is best to limit the toys to a few so that they grow up understanding that not everything is given all the time, and sometimes you won’t receive what you want.
Purchase Toys Based on Need
If your child wants a high-end toy, then that one toy is enough. There is no rule that says a child should receive numerous toys during the holidays. Sometimes it is that one special toy that will be appreciated and played with for years to come.
If a child receives an abundance of toys, yes, it may be exciting in the beginning for your child, but that excitement will soon where off. It is impossible for your child to play with all the toys he or she receives at all times. He or she will end up picking their most favorite and the other toys will be left to the side in the corner of the room.
We sometimes have this preconceived notion that the more we buy our child the better, but this is not so. A child can be just as happy with one toy as he or she can be with many toys. What matters is that the toy is given with thought. You know your child best, so buying him or her something that suits their personality will be a winner each time.
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